Monday, December 13, 2021

Everything I Learned About Life Part 2...

 Since I'm strolling down memory lane, I should probably post this one too about Marching Band. Some of my most fondest memories of high school was marching band whether it was a parade, the dreaded fundamental block, band camp field out in the middle of nowhere, or even just a football field (and some of my bandmates report that "squeezing the marble" is a skill we have used in our adult lives after we've had children--Thanks Bithia for that one!). These men taught us how to be dependable friends, caring human beings, working hard, and just being a decent human being. Thank You Karl and Dan for stepping in and being a Dad to many of us!


Once again, I must say it...Everything I learned about life, I learned on the marching band field.

My marching band experience began in the summer of 1991 as I was entering my freshman year in high school. We were under the direction of Karl Robinson. That August we went to band camp at Woodland Altars in Peebles, Ohio. I can remember sitting around a campfire listening to Karl read a story from the bible that our contest show was going to be about. "The Gathering of the Ranks At Hebron" by David Holsinger simple but beautiful song. Listen here: http://youtu.be/HNn_AM_WS1I

The bible verse was I Chronicles 12:23-38. We had a banner with these verses displayed at our competition and we were not allowed to display the banner at any school practice or football halftime show as you know that bible and God in schools is forbidden. Read the story here: 

This story is about determination, war...our story was about blood, sweat, tears, determination, working hard. My story was that I was a Freshman who was struggling but by the end got it right. That very first competition at Anderson High School, I lost my Trombone slide but I didn't quit! I did the whole show, miming my slide positions every step of the way through the tears that flowed down my face. My band brothers and sisters so kind to me that day. I will never forget our field commander who gracefully picked up my slide all in step as we left the field. I finally belonged that day as many of the upperclassmen came to me to tell me that it was all okay and about their many times of not being perfect. We went on to the next competition at Hamilton High School where we became the Grand Champions! We made it to State...the biggest OMEA competition of the very best  bands. 


The state competition brings a very funny story now but then we were in some serious you know what. That morning we had to practice with the female band director Ms. Taylor (Sorry Ms. Taylor for being such wretched kids!). We were so mean to that poor lady...of course Robinson found out about it and in full dress uniform we were doing push ups in a gravel parking lot in front of other bands! 


The next 3  years flew by and we performed crazy show after crazy show...4 to 5 at 120 bpm marching backwards topped it all though that very first year.  We performed "The Raven", we were a concert band at the beginnning of the 3rd year, we did "All That Jazz" my senior year which was a total disaster.

But through all of the emotion, hard work, laziness my last year....I really did learn some things. It wasn't for nothing. When life's trials and tribulations threaten to bring me down, I get back up and I say, "I was a Marching Wildcat under the direction of Karl Robinson and Dan Meeks. Missy, you are not a quitter. You are a survivor. You will get down and squeeze that marble, you will stand tall, and you will persevere. You are not a quitter...you have the Superior attitude and you will rise!" Determination.


An oldie but goody...yours truly!

And WOW! Look at that low brass section, looking sharp and in step!


Everything I Learned About Life...

 Please Note: I wrote this post originally 8 years ago on Facebook. I was able to tag my Jr. Band Director, Mr. Dan Meeks and he was able to read it. I am glad I was able to tell him what he meant to me. He was truly one of the best music educators. The song by Michael W. Smith "Friends Are Friends Forever" was a song he dedicated to us. A Life is not too long to live as friends and I am honored and thankful that I could remain friends with him over the years. You see, my earliest memory of Dan was when I was a small child-toddler, he held me on his hip while he was directing one of my brothers. That's where my love of music started. RIH Sir, I'll see you again in Heaven's band...hold a spot for me.

I learned on a marching band field. Yes, folks, you read it correctly!


I've been thinking back on my life and some of the most influential people in my life besides my parents were my band directors: Karl Robinson and Dan Meeks.


Not only did these men teach me some hard lessons but they loved me and every other band kid. They showed us kindness, happiness when it was needed but they also showed us what it means to work hard, to persevere, to not give up, and that superior is not just a rating--it is an attitude.


Starting out with band in the 5th grade, these men taught us the basics about music and playing an instrument with such care and love for band that they made us want to move on to band in the 7th and 8th grade. 


In the 7th and 8th grade they taught us that just because a certain type of music isn't your favorite, you still need to find appreciation of each genre. Mr. Meeks taught us to read college level music. He inspired us and challenged us. June of 1990 (end of my 7th grade year), there was a tornado that went through our hometown of Harrison, Ohio. Would you believe that Mr. Meeks went to every child's house that was in band to make sure that we were all safe and accounted for? The Spring of that year was so magical! 


At the spring concert of my 7th grade year, I can remember standing in the parking lot of the Junior School talking with Mr. Meeks, my parents and there might have been a few others. As we were about to go inside, all of us at the same time saw a shooting star and Mr. Meeks says, "See that....it is definitely going to be a magical night!" You see, that was the night he announced that we were accepted to attend "Disney Magical Music Days" where we got to perform concerts at Disney World and Sea World! I remember a song he shared with us at our end of year banquet with a framed print out of the words (I, sadly, can't find mine anymore.) But I will never forget that song or those words:


Friends Are Friends Forever by Michael W. Smith


YouTube Link: http://youtu.be/Ped1jYLFtkA


Packing up the dreams God planted
In the fertile soil of you
I can't believe the hopes He's granted
Means a chapter of your life is through

But we'll keep you close as always
It won't even seem you've gone
'Cause our hearts in big and small ways
Will keep the love that keeps us strong

And friends are friends forever
If the Lord's the Lord of them
And a friend will not say never
'Cause the welcome will not end
Though it's hard to let you go
In the Father's hands we know
That a lifetime's not too long
To live as friends

And with the faith and love God's given
Springing from the hope we know
We will pray the joy you live in
Is the strength that now you show

We'll keep you close as always
It won't even seem you've gone
'Cause our hearts in big and small ways
Will keep the love that keeps us strong

And friends are friends forever
If the Lord's the Lord of them
And a friend will not say never
'Cause the welcome will not end
Though it's hard to let you go
In the Father's hands we know
That a lifetime's not too long
To live as friends

And friends are friends forever
If the Lord's the Lord of them
And a friend will not say never
'Cause the welcome will not end
Though it's hard to let you go
In the Father's hands we know
That a lifetime's not too long
To live as friends

To live as friends

Though it's hard to let you go
In the Father's hands we know
That a lifetime's not too long
To live as friends

No a lifetime's not too long
To live as friends 


Even when a chair or a music stand flew through the air, (we knew to duck because it was usually aimed at the percussion section or in some cases, those rowdy trumpets! ;) hahaha) we knew deep in our hearts that you loved each of us. Mr. Dan Meeks, you were the best of the best and because of that you spurred a deep love for music that I can now share with my children...teaching them all I know and I can do so now with confidence because you taught us not only music but you taught us how to care. Thank You, Sir! 

I was such a brat sticking out my tongue! But one of my favorite pics of Mr. Meeks...love that smile!

Everything I Learned About Life Part 2...

 Since I'm strolling down memory lane, I should probably post this one too about Marching Band. Some of my most fondest memories of high...